Thursday, April 7, 2011

Baking the Mennonite Pocket Trifecta

My grandparents on both sides were German Mennonites. Like all good Mennonite women, my grandmas baked and cooked a lot. My mom did too.
I, however, was off the hook. I wouldn’t need to attempt those difficult and ridiculously time-consuming recipes.  I’d married a non-Mennonite.
What I’d failed to take into account was where I’d met my husband—Tabor College, a Mennonite Brethren school. Sometime during the four-and-a-half years he spent in Hillsboro, my city-dwelling husband-to-be tasted veranika, zwiebach, bierrocks, peppernuts, cherry moos, etc.--and his eyes were opened.
Shortly after we married he suggested we make veranika (cottage cheese-filled pasta pockets), and while we were at it, why not invite his family and several friends?
I sighed heavily and rolled my eyes. “I’ll help,” he said. I called my mom and copied down the recipe. I used my new veranika cutter that Grandpa Epp had made for all of the women at our last Christmas gathering. Still, the veranika pockets kept popping open in the boiling water and losing their filling. Finally we managed to make enough edible ones as our dinner guests were arriving.
These were the leftover veranika last New Year's Day. We made about 60 for a dinner for Dave's family.
My other forays into traditional German Mennonite cuisine always started with the best of intentions, but predictably ended hours later with frazzled nerves, messy countertops, and a mounting frustration with both my grandmas and every other German Mennonite woman through the ages who set the Gold Medal flour standard so impossibly high.
Like the time I was to host the church group leaders’ meeting at my house. Instead of serving apple pie, which would require fussing with plates and forks (this was the year we lived in a rental house without a dishwasher), I had the bright idea to simply serve hand-held apple dumplings, or Prieska. So after dinner the evening before the meeting, I set out to make them.
Hours later, with my husband already snoring in bed, my kitchen dusted in flour, my back and shoulders aching from mixing and rolling out pie dough, cutting it into squares, and pinching each dumpling shut, I decided making dumplings was ten times more time-consuming than baking a pie (which is hardly a quick fix).
At the meeting the next night, my friend Stacy commented that the hand-held dumplings were a convenient idea. I thought of the stacks upon stacks of plates and forks I could have washed during the time it took to complete my marathon apple dumpling-baking session. “Not as convenient as you might think,” was all I could reply.
Grab a bierrock while you can--they don't last long at our house.
Occasionally I would try bierrocks, a bun baked with a ground beef and cabbage filling. And every time, when I finally finished rolling, cutting, pinching, and tucking the ends under for each dough pocket, I would think, “never again.” Until a few years would pass, the frustrating memories would fade, and I would find myself trying again.
I noticed a pattern: veranika, prieska, and bierrocks were all pockets—a German Mennonite pocket trifecta. Who were these crazed women obsessed with putting food in pockets?  Didn’t they know that creating pockets out of noodle dough, or pie dough, or bread dough was incredibly difficult and time consuming? Hadn’t they heard about casseroles?  What maniacal obsession possessed them?
A few years ago my sister and her family moved to Freeman, South Dakota, and my parents and I visited during Schmeckfest, Freeman Academy’s “Festival of Tasting.”
At the festival, demonstrators prepare a number of traditional foods. At the booth where a woman was preparing veranika (which they call “cheese pockets”), I saw my chance.
“So how often do you make this at home?” I asked the woman rolling out the dough. “Once or twice a month?”
“Actually I just make it for Schmeckfest,” she replied.
I was floored.
On the drive home, I had a chance to pin down my parents.
“So how often did Grandma Epp actually make veranika?” I asked.
“Several times a year, mainly for special occasions,” my dad said.
“How about bierrocks?”
“She made them mainly in summer, to take to the field,” he said. “She liked to make extra to freeze to have on hand.”
Of course she would. Even if Hot Pockets had been on the market then, she wouldn’t have bought pre-packaged foods.
“What about Grandma Ediger?” I asked my mom.
“We didn’t have veranika or bierrocks all that often,” my mom admitted. “However, she did make apple dumplings frequently, because we had a crab apple tree, and Grandpa really liked them.”
Stories of my grandma Ediger’s faith are legendary in our family, but I don’t think I’ve heard anything that illustrates her sweet, servant heart better than her willingness to spend hours upon hours in her kitchen making apple dumplings because they owned a crab apple tree (she was a thrifty Mennonite, after all) and her husband really liked them.
So the next time my husband requests veranika, I’ll try to smile and say, “Okay, great idea!”
Maybe I’ll even suggest making it myself.

Friday, March 11, 2011

Which is Andy?

Now that the high school wrestling season is officially over, and we've had our awards banquet and everything, I have to tell on Coach Johnston. Here he is at the state tournament, wearing his ring from his glory days when Bishop Carrol won state.

They'd nearly finished the first round of wrestling, so he came to the stands to tell the wrestlers to get ready to warm up on the mats. Dave and I were sitting near the first row when I felt Coach pat the back of my head.
I turned around, wondering why he wanted my attention.
"Oh, I thought you were Suriano," he said, clearly embarassed.
This is Andy Suriano, the wrestler.
I've heard Andy is well-known around North for his long hair, and all the girls think he's cute.
But my question is, who was slighted the most?
Me, because although I had flat ironed and styled my hair that morning, it was still compared to a teenage boy's AFTER HE WAS ALL SWEATY FROM WRESTLING.

Or Andy, who was mistaken for a 42-year-old MOM.
Poor Coach Johnston. There's no graceful way out of this one.
So which is Andy?

Thursday, March 10, 2011

Ski Trippin'

For all of you who have been clamoring to find out about my ski trip (that would be Tina and Janice), here's the update, with photos:
Since it was a church organized group, our fearless organizer Brenda insisted that we switch vehicles at every stop.
We had four women in each of the three vehicles, so we had plenty of room and no limit to good conversation. And when we saw a Starbucks in the Oasis truck stop, we stopped.
When we got to Boulder, we treated ourselves to Beau Joes Pizza. It was as yummy as it looks.
On Friday we were geared up to go skiing. We rode the shuttle bus for $5 from Boulder to the slopes at Eldora.
Finally we got our gear and we were ready to go! This is Sandy.

I was excited to ski, but also nervous since I hadn't been for about seven years. I wasn't sure I'd remember how to get off the lift.

Plus, I was concerned about re-injuring my knee that I'd hyperextended this past summer. On the first slope we went down (rated green), I wasn't sure I'd be able to do it. Then we did an unusually hard blue, and I about freaked out. Eventually, I got down that run, and after that everything else was easier. We all met at the lodge for a well-deserved lunch.

 We heard that one of our group, D.D., had fallen and injured her shoulder. She was in first aid until Brenda could get her back to Boulder.
After lunch, the die-hard skiers were ready to go again. (That's me on the left).
This is Stacy, who celebrated her birthday skiing down the mountain.
When the extra-diehard skiers decided to do a black run, Hannah and I took the opportunity to stand back and enjoy the view.
And this is what we saw.
Incredible. That was my favorite moment. Thanks, Hannah.
We ate at The Cheesecake Factory that night, telling ourselves that we could splurge because we'd burned off all those calories skiing. We really overused that line.
We were seated at adjoining booths, so I sent my camera over the wall for them to take pictures. Here are all of the lovely ladies.
Brenda, Patty, and Hannah
Christy, Karen (me), and Renee
Karen, Joy, and Jimi
Brenda, Heidi, Sandy, and Stacy
And here's the cheesecake I shared with Christy:

One more day of skiing for the diehards. Getting our gear on.
The weather on Saturday wasn't quite as good--a little colder, more wind.
Brenda skied with us.

We enjoyed the view. We also tried a couple of black slopes. I did the Corona and another one. Stacy's pole lesson helped give me a little more control and confidence. Thanks, Stacy!
After lunch, the snow was getting icy and the wind had picked up, so a few of us quit early. When I got to the lodge after our last run, I had a tremendous sense of relief that I'd done the whole trip without blowing out my knee. That's the not-so-fun part of being a grown-up: becoming chicken.
We had an extra-long drive back to Boulder because we got caught in the traffic for Nederland's Frozen Dead Guy Festival. It looked like an interesting little mountain town.
 I saw a few places I wanted to check out. But the bus wasn't stopping. Maybe next time.

In the evening we celebrated Stacy's birthday at the award-winning Dushanbe Tea House because they serve her favorite, Indian food.
I enjoyed the ginger peach tea.
The unique ceilings,

And the great company.

Tuesday, March 1, 2011

"This Kid's a Fighter," or "Bloodbath"

Just in case you think wrestlers aren't really that tough, I have to tell you what happened at the 5A-6A State Wrestling Championships this weekend. I assure you that this is a completely unbiased account, because I'm not writing about my own son. I'm talking about his opponent.

Caleb met this kid during Consolation Cross Bracketing on the second day of the tournament. We had heard that he'd broken his hand during the first round the day before. Despite that, he'd gone on to wrestle in the second round quarterfinals, where he lost. I was wondering if he would even show up that next day. A dad from his team told us he already had hand surgery scheduled for the following week. As a mom, I would certainly support saying, "That's the breaks," and bow out of the tournament.

But not this wrestler. He came to the mat, hand bandaged to his wrist. Caleb got a takedown on him, and in an effort to pin him, grabbed his broken hand just as the first round ended. The kid got up, cradling his bandaged hand with his other and grimacing. Caleb started the next round in the "down" position. As the whistle blew, he stood up and got an escape. Unfortunately for his opponent, Caleb's flying elbow connected with his nose, and bloodied it (and possibly broke it. Caleb later showed me a red mark on his tricep. "I think it's from his tooth," he said.).

The kid doubled over, wiped his nose, sat on the mat, then lay back. The refs stopped the match as his coaches and a trainer gathered around him and as the blood cleanup crew stretched on their blue gloves and got to work. We were guessing that he'd taken some blood-thinning painkillers, judging from the free-flowing mess. 

I thought, "OK, this is it. Throw in the towel. There is no way that this kid will continue."

But he came back like a senior wrestling in the last state championship of his high school career. Because he was, and it was. When Caleb took him down another time, he cried out from the pain of landing on his broken hand. As he did, the cotton that the trainers had stuffed in his nose blew out. So they stopped the match for another blood time out.

This time the kid was on bottom. As he tried to escape from Caleb, the cotton blew out again. From our seats halfway up the stands we could clearly see strings of snotty blood hanging from his nose. He swiped it with his good hand as the table workers quickly offered him the trash bucket.

Four workers were required to clean the blood spewed completely across that mat.




Caleb's coach cleaned some blood off Caleb's leg.
And they had a little time to discuss strategy.



In the third period, as Caleb was working to roll him over for a pin, the refs called an injury time out because the kid was obviously in pain. He stood up, got his breath back, and was ready to go agaain.

Altogether, the match was stopped eight times for blood or injury. Each time, I was sure Caleb's opponent would say, "Enough." He never did. And although Caleb worked hard to pin him, he never quite got the job done. The kid lasted all three excruciating rounds. Caleb won the match 10-1.

He wasn't the only winner.

Monday, February 14, 2011

Great Expectations

I remember the first time I encountered Valentine's Day expectations in an office setting. It was ugly.

I'd been married for 47 days. When I showed up for my part-time job as a student assistant in a WSU office, I quickly realized a competition was ensuing. And yes, size did matter. The person who had received a vase of  three arranged roses was quickly trumped by the delivery of a dozen to another waiting coworker. Then someone pulled ahead by getting two dozen. Others fretted, wondering if their husbands had remembered to call the florist. I swear some of them had checklists--"OK, Susie's got hers, Mary, Bev, and Pam have all had deliveries. That just leaves. . . "The office manager broke down in tears--she'd been through a nasty breakup a few months prior, my boss pulled me aside to explain.

And they all looked at me, the newlywed, pitying my empty desk.

The year before on Valentine's Day, I'd received a dozen red roses from Dave, and a cake that said "Be Mine" with an engagement ring inside. But now we were one--heart, soul, and checking account. And there wasn't much in the latter.I certainly hadn't expected him to send me anything. The thought actually hadn't crossed my mind until our office turned into the Rose Bowl.

When the day was over, they all cleared out, balancing their vases of token roses with their briefcases, worrying aloud how they would transport them without spilling. I left empty-handed.

And when I opened the door to our one-bedroom apartment, my new sweet husband Dave was waiting for me with a vase of three roses and a little plush teddy bear. "I never thought about it, but I probably should have had this delivered to you at work," he said.

"Oh, that's okay," I said.

And it was.

Dave made up for any Valentine's Day oversights in the past by surprising me with two dozen roses on our 20th anniversary AFTER we'd spent a week vacationing in Cancun.

Monday, February 7, 2011

Facebook Moments

Some people (I'm thinking of my husband in particular here) say I waste too much time on facebook. While that may be true (OK, it is) there are some redeeming moments from the past year or so that keep me logging in and updating my status.

Mod Reunion
In the fall of 2009, an old college friend mentioned via facebook that she would be in town in a few weeks. With minimal effort, six of us gals who had lived in the same mod (that's Tabor-speak for "dorm") during the 1987-88 school year were able, via facebook messaging, to pick a day, choose a restaurant, and meet for a wonderful extended lunch. We had such a great time. It hadn't happened in 20 years, and I don't think it would have if it hadn't been for facebook.

High School Reunions
The same goes for high school friends. I've had the pleasure of attending a couple of Christmas parties wtih old classmates because they invited through facebook.

Aunt Extrodinaire
I have lots of really neat aunts, but only one is active with facebook. Because of her posts, I've gotten to know her a little bit better. And she makes lots of encouraging comments on my posts. I love that.

Cousin Connection
Through facebook, I've been able to keep up with several cousins who I never did before. Some are interested in four-wheeling, like our family, or running, as I am. Several have read my blog, through a link from facebook. At a gathering one even told my mom that I was a good writer. (Of course I love that!) A cousin linked a news clip when his high school basketball star son had the "play of the week," an awesome alley-oop dunk. A highlight we replayed numerous times. That's my cousin's kid!

Breaking Stereotypes
Through facebook, I discovered that someone I'd dismissed in high school as a goat roper from Durham was now on several library advocacy boards, and volunteered at his son's school book fair, like I usually do. I decided that if I can go from a studious farm girl to a Harley-riding mama, he can change too. That's the fun of growing up, getting past old stereotypes and finding common ground in surprising places.

Renewing Friendships
A girl in our church youth group mainly hung out with my older sister and her crowd. Still, I remember sitting with her on the van back from a mission trip, enjoying talking with her and being amazed at her sketching abilities. I loved her name, and eventually named my daughter after her. She moved several states away and I completely lost contact with her until this past year. It's so fun to see her as a mom of two boys and walk through her flower garden (via her photo albums, of course). We've connected on several creative topics, and she has encouraged me tremendously with my writing. It's amazing that we can be a part of each others lives so easily from hundreds of miles away.

Wednesday, December 22, 2010

Lasting Marriages

Dave and I will have been married 20 years on Dec. 29. We've already celebrated this December with a week's vacation in Cancun, Mexico. The responses we received when we told people were interesting.

On the ferry to a nearby island, I talked to two fun couples in their 50s, one from Denver and the other from Omaha. The wives are friends, and the two couples have been vacationing together for about five years. When I told them we were celebrating our 20th, I thought they might tell me how long they'd been married, but they made no comment. Perhaps they didn't want to one up me by saying they'd been married 30-plus years. Or, Dave thought, after talking with one of the husbands, that at least one of the couples was on a second marriage.

Two fun Canadian brothers we met, in their late 40s or early 50s, had both been divorced twice. One said his massage on the beach was nearly spoiled when he heard "Dearly beloved, we are gathered here today. . ." from a nearby wedding. He wanted to jump up and tell them, "No! Don't do it!"

He said he had a few friends with good marriages like ours seemed to be, but left the impression that it was the minority.

Another couple from South Carolina about our age that we met on our way to Coco Bongo almost couldn't fathom being married 20 years. I'm not sure how long they'd been together before their trip to Cancun.

Our waiter at Maria's, the fine dining restaurant in our hotel, was a bright spot. After serving our special anniversary dessert, he proudly told me he and his wife had been married "diez" (10) years.



Back home, a single mom at a school function said both of her marriages added together didn't total 20.

I remember Paul Harvey on the radio congratulating the week's "Champion Lovers." People married 70 years or more were common (and most were from Nebraska). Now he's gone, and the pool of enduring marriages is drying up.

However, the year after our wedding we had a number of friends marry as well, and nearly all of those marriages are intact and thriving. Furthermore, I know a number of friends whose parents are celebrating their 50th anniversaries, and mine are as well.

Of course, the thread that ties all of these marriages together is faith in God. Without Him, they unravel.

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I am a freelance writer. I also work full time with our business, Franklin Lawn Service. My husband, David, and I met as students at Tabor College and we have been married for almost 20 years. We have three great kids, Caleb, Harrison, and Laurel.